3 Keys to Keeping a Great Relationship

Ok guys, now that you’re in an awesome relationship things begin to hit a leveling out point. This is where many couples hit snags in their relationship and can pull partners apart. We will delve into three ways to push past this point and to keep your relationship alive and thriving.

One big trap that many guys fall into is thinking that we have to be the “Nice Guy” all the time. Now don’t get me wrong. There is nothing at all wrong with being a considerate male, but you should have limits. Bending over backwards to assure that your partner is happy is not the way to keep things exciting. What can happen is the woman will start to realize that you are predictable in the way that whatever she wants, you’ll get for her.

So one way to address this is for you to take ownership of your actions and do things that you want to do. You can still be nice to your partner, but just don’t overdo it. Do things for yourself and not just because she wants something. This will show her that you are not just a push over and that you are still sweet to her, but the point I am trying to make is that her being happy isn’t running your life.

Another key to keeping a great relationship is to let her miss you. This goes hand in hand with being too much of a “Nice Guy”. Having some alone time is a good way for you to either go hang out with friends or catch up on some things that you have been neglecting yourself of. Allow her to miss you being around by taking a night to yourself every couple of weeks or every month. This will also give her a chance for some alone time for herself.

One last key to keeping a great relationship is to not worry about the small things. Caring too much about your partner’s imperfections can really ruin a relationship. I know that everyone thinks that they are close to perfect because we live with ourselves and know everything that happens with us. Realize that no one is perfect, not even you, and when you find imperfections about your partner, remember to think about yourself and things that might annoy others.

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